passed Dad a birthday present i chose together with sister as a representative of the three of us. it felt quite awkward passing him that because there wasn’t such a tradition and it’s always Mum who does the giving of present to me all these while. but looking at him open up the present and seeing his happy face just make me feel it’s all worth while. even though we aren’t the kind who’ll speak words of affirmation towards each other, yet there are just small gestures and moments that really make me feel very connected and thankful to Dad.
still remember when i was young, maybe primary1 or something, and i really wanted to get this collection of books. so the conversation between Dad and i started:
i: Papa, i really want it.
Dad: you sure? if you want the collection of books, then i wont buy you presents for the rest of your other birthdays.
i: (thought about it) i’ll just get the books
haha, yeah dont remember him buying me any presents but he’s the one who’ll pay for all my birthday meals throughout all these years(: even a korea trip too.
54.
Happy Birthday Dad(:
